Christian Discipleship

The Great Commission! “Go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and the Holy Spirit.” Matthew 28:19. Recently, I have been pondering what Christian discipleship really means.

I think most believers have the Great Commission figured out; at least the first part of it. However, there is another verse that is part of the directive that often gets overlooked. As a result, people are left on their own to try and figure out what it means to be a Christian disciple.

Let’s look at the second part of the Great Commission; Matthew 28:20. “…and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” What about life on life? What about obedience? What about the daily, nitty gritty decisions we all make? This is where Christian discipleship comes into play. It’s people getting involved in other people’s lives, spending time together in community and family, being accountable to another person. Yes, it can get messy, but that’s where the growth takes place.

It’s not enough to lead someone to Christ. We are responsible to train them to reproduce. So, we hang out with them, encourage them, answer and ask questions, challenge them and point them to the Father. We don’t want to leave them as newborn babies who grow fat on milk. Just like we desire to see our own children grow up and become responsible adults, true Christian discipleship raises up new believers to seek the Lord, be fed by him and give to others.

Discipleship at its Best!

A friend who has three children aged three, two and almost one, was telling me the other day of an offer she had from a younger lady. This young lady wanted to be mentored and asked Cindy if she needed a nanny. Cindy said she couldn’t afford to pay a nanny, but wondered what Rachel had in mind. Rachel said she didn’t have much training in mothering or homemaking as she was raised by her father. She just wanted to spend time with Cindy and learn from her.

One on One Mentoring

What an awesome picture of what discipleship is all about. So many times people ask ‘what is discipleship?’ and seem to be intimidated by the term. The pre-conceived idea of what they need to do and the responsibility of passing on to another person what they have learned and experienced seems to strike fear in people’s hearts. It really isn’t hard. But, it does take honest living and willingness to be real. Cindy is learning so much about mentoring a younger lady. Rachel is learning life skills as well as godly character that are being role modeled right before her eyes.

What is discipleship? Life on life. The ‘with me’ principle. Coming alongside another for their benefit.

When you have someone as eager as Rachel, someone who wants to learn and grow, there is such blessing. Cindy is blessed as Rachel seeks to help her and Rachel is blessed as she is observing Cindy, asking questions and learning how to grow into the woman she is destined to become.

So, discipleship isn’t a set of rules to follow, intense bible study, or a checklist to complete. It’s time spent with another passing on life lessons and showing by example how to live life in relationship with God and other believers.